It’s good to be posting again after a longer than expected break.

I’ve been learning a lot lately about being still and content during different seasons of life.

The Bible has something to say about these seasons of life.

There is a time for everything,
    and a season for every activity under the heavens:

      a time to be born and a time to die,
    a time to plant and a time to uproot,
      a time to kill and a time to heal,
    a time to tear down and a time to build,
      a time to weep and a time to laugh,
    a time to mourn and a time to dance,
      a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
    a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
      a time to search and a time to give up,
    a time to keep and a time to throw away,
      a time to tear and a time to mend,
    a time to be silent and a time to speak,
      a time to love and a time to hate,
    a time for war and a time for peace.

What do workers gain from their toil? I have seen the burden God has laid on the human race. He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end. I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live. That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God.  

Ecclesiastes 3:1-14

The season that I have just been through has required me to drop what is routine and important to me and go with the flow of new happenings.

I’m the type that doesn’t like change and I feel guilty if I am not accomplishing all the tasks that I have planned for a productive day.

Over the last few months, my daily routine has been very different from normal—less writing, working out, volunteering; more down time, travel, and familial support in great achievements and concerning developments.

In May my husband and I had the great joy of celebrating two of our grandchildren’s high school graduations. We are so proud of both who graduated with honors and will be attending college this fall. These are major milestones we are privileged to see and experience after much prayer over the years.

We even took a few days to relax at the beach when we traveled to back Florida (our previous home) for our grandson’s graduation. It was a great mini-vacation, and I thoroughly enjoyed every moment of it.

In December of last year, we found out that my husband had prostate cancer, and thankfully it was caught in the early stages.

We were not caught by surprise, because he had been monitoring his PSA levels for a couple of years. But still, the news of the diagnosis was unsettling.  

We kept it to ourselves during our Christmas stay with my parents until we could get more information regarding treatment, eradication, and chance of return.

After meeting with the urologist, surgical oncologist, and radiologist, my husband maintained his decision for a different course of treatment.

I wanted him to “get it taken care of asap,” but I knew it was my responsibility to support his decision, which would mean more doctor’s visits that would require travel outside of our home state, South Carolina.

So, with the blessing of these doctors who told us that he had time to make an informed decision, we started our research for proton therapy treatment.

After many phone calls and traveling to three different cities, we finalized the how, where, and when questions we needed answered.

I am happy to share that just last week, six months after the diagnosis, my husband completed the treatment plan that he preferred and is feeling well enough to go back to work.

He has had one concerning persistent side effect that we are trying to manage with medication. 

The whole process has been a journey in trusting God for guidance, peace of mind, and healing.

We have to return to the oncology center for his three-month post treatment analysis, so we realize that this process will be ongoing, and we will continue to seek our Heavenly Father for comfort and wisdom.  

I would like to add that I am grateful that all the years of staying in God’s word has allowed me to have peace and be resourceful through it all.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Philippians 4:6-7

As seasoned followers of Christ, my husband and I knew we could trust God to provide everything we needed to get to and through his treatment.

We prayed and maintained our emotional stability, even when breaking the news to our family members. Some cried being terrified of the word “cancer,” while others were supportive in offering their knowledge of having survived cancer or having worked in the field of cancer diagnoses and treatment.

And God, in His goodness, provided a church member who had just completed the same treatment that my husband preferred.

This church member, now a dear friend, met with us to talk about his experience of the treatment and answered any questions we had. He kept in touch with my husband throughout the whole process of trying to find the right treatment center as well as during the treatment.

What was even more encouraging was the fact that he shared his three-month follow-up with great news of a healthy PSA level. Thank you, dear Jesus!

Even though not planned originally, my husband had his treatment at the same center as our friend from church.

God always provides!

In the words of Paul, the apostle,

 And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.

To our God and Father be glory for ever and ever. Amen.

Philippians 4:19-20

In His goodness, God provided peace, relaxation, and even joy in the midst of waiting.  

It was just what our eternal Doctor knew we needed.

God is so good to us—exactly the reason I started this blog over two years ago to share His goodness with you and to praise Him for it.

I hope this blesses you in a way to help you be still and allow the seasons or changes in your life to unfold in a peaceful manner while yet experiencing joy in the midst of it.  

I’ve included the song below for your listening pleasure. May it bless you as you recall God’s goodness in your life.

Seasons and Your Grace – Verse of Grace Studio