Tag: Romans 12:2

Who Do You Follow?

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I have been moved to write this post for some time and have recently been prompted to do so even more due to many posts I read on social media promoting the agenda of specific people in government. 

There is nothing more adverse to me than to see people ruthlessly deride, take advantage of, lie, and mistreat others to gain fame, power, and wealth.  

And it’s disheartening when I see others who support these people as if waving a banner proudly to attach their identity to them.

So, I ask who do you follow?

Who is the person you put your name and your soul on the line for?

A Call for Discernment

We are told by God to be discerning and to examine others’ actions—not just their words.

This is exactly what the Bereans did when they listened to the apostle Paul preach to them in their small town in Greece.

“Now the Berean Jews were of more noble character than those in Thessalonica, for they received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true.” 

Acts 17:11

Before going to Berea, Paul was preaching in Thessalonica when a group of people got together and began to speak against Paul and his followers which caused a riot that was unnecessary and ungodly.

However, the Bereans took what Paul said and compared it to the scriptures to see if there was truth in his message.

The Bereans were commended for their good judgment and actions in searching out truth.

This is how we all should be when it comes to discerning right from wrong in our society.

We are not supposed to sing praises of those who do not follow all of God’s ways.

We are to speak out against the wrong, no matter who is doing it.

We are to have discernment which we gain from communing with God and reading His word to know what is right and what is wrong.

God is the only one we should follow and praise.

Don’t Conform to this World

Sometimes I think people overlook offenses and conform to what they know is wrong because they want to be part of a certain group so they can be accepted by others, whether it be family, friends, or community.

I have seen this wherever I have lived.

Perhaps this is because they don’t search God’s word or they’re just afraid to stand out and be rejected if they go against the community’s belief system.  

However, we are told by God in His word to not conform to the belief system or ways of this world.

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”

Romans 12:2

The renewing of our minds comes by reading the word of God—daily.

How can we know truth if we don’t read the Bible?

God’s word is truth and it teaches us right from wrong and shows us how we are to conduct our lives. (2 Timothy 3:16-17)

Align Your Thoughts and Actions with Jesus

As I recall all the backbiting during the last presidential election held in the U.S., it was saddening to see our nation so divided based on the wrongdoings of the candidates and parties they represent.  

God has blessed us in the United States of America; if only we had government leaders who would follow God’s ways so we could continue to be blessed.

Our division is due to the fact that we chose (as a nation) a path for so many years that is not of God.  

I wish we could go back and retrace our steps to be in line with God’s will, so we could live in peace and harmony with one another as opposed to bashing each other through social media.

It would be great if we would be mindful to ask before we speak or post, “What would Jesus do?”

“And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” 

Colossians 3:17

If we really considered what Jesus would do, and if we truly wanted to represent Him, we would be careful of our words and actions.

Jesus would

-pray

-be truthful

-show mercy for true repentance

-help the unfortunate

-expect us to follow Him and His ways

-lead us out of our sinful ways

I was so happy to see a sign in the yard of one of our neighbors that said “I vote for Jesus” during the 2024 presidential election. Those were my exact thoughts!

Jesus is coming back again, and I believe very soon. (Revelation 22:12-15)

We should all be expectant which means that we should be living as if He were coming back today.

When He comes, He will come as THE RULER who will defeat the ways of this world and its prince that has caused so much division and devastation.

As for me, I choose to follow Jesus Christ.

He died on the cross for all of us to pay for our sins.

He defeated death and the grave.

He will return to be our beloved King and reign righteously for ever and ever.

Come LORD Jesus, come!

If you want to have a relationship with God and are not sure how or where to start, see my previous posts Relationship with God and Relationship with God – Part 2.

A Life Well Lived

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In this post I would like to honor my uncle Gerald who recently passed away in November, just one month short of his 85th birthday.

He was born on Christmas Day in 1939 and was the younger brother and only sibling of my father.

My husband and I were in Louisiana visiting family for Thanksgiving and for a quick getaway.  

While in New Orleans, I received a call from one of my cousin’s wives who told me he was in the hospital and the doctors said he was not going to last long. He passed a couple of hours later, but…

I am happy to say that I know he is with our LORD and Savior Jesus Christ.

The day he died, he made a call to my father and spoke with him and my mother. My dad said he was in good spirits and told him that he had a good report from the doctor—he was cancer free and had received his last round of treatment. He was making plans to drive down to my parents’ home to go out for lunch and then start traveling again.

Growing up we lived two hours apart, so we did not spend a lot of time together, but we did make an effort to get together during the holidays.

The last time I saw him alive was the previous year (2023) during the Christmas holidays. We took my parents to see him and visit with him and my cousins. It was a good reunion where we talked about growing up and remembering many funny things we did at our grandparents when we were kids. We had some laughs and did some catching up.

As we were about to return to my parents’ home, my uncle looked at me and said, “Carmen, please pray for me.” I told him I would and I prayed for him then and throughout the year of 2024.

I knew he was concerned about his health, because he had cancer and some other health issues, but he still looked good and strong to me.

After he went to be with the LORD, we took my parents to his viewing and I spoke to my cousin who found him unconscious at home and had him rushed to the hospital the day he died.

It was so touching to find out that uncle Gerald was in his chair at his desk going over his Bible study lesson for the upcoming Sunday.

May I be doing the same when the LORD calls me home!

In fact, may I do many of the things that my uncle Gerald did while he was alive!

These are the memories that I have of him:

He loved the LORD and he loved his family.

We may not have seen each other often, but I do know how he acted when he was around us.

He was a humble man.

He was not self-centered. He never talked about his accomplishments, his wants, his rights.

I never heard him complain, although I am sure he had reason to at times.

He often played with us as children out in my grandparents’ yard, just like my dear grandfather.

He was not focused on being a millionaire, instead he was focused on being a provider for his family and having a loving relationship with his wife, children (five sons), and other family members.

He worked at the same place of business for 42 years until he retired.

I never saw him argue with anyone, never saw him swear.

He was not judgmental and he never talked down to anyone.

One of my cousin’s wives who lived near him said, “I’ve never heard him say a bad word about anyone. He always found the good in them.”

He exemplified Jesus!

He was able to laugh at himself and laugh at funny memories that he and my dad had of their childhood.

He was respectful to us (nieces, nephews) as grownups and was genuinely interested in our lives as we moved out on our own, got married, had children, and shared our experiences with him.

He loved to travel. I had to ask my cousins for help on this one as I wasn’t sure of all the places he visited. I was informed that he had been to most all the 50 states, including Alaska and Hawaii. He also traveled to Egypt, Greece, Cyprus, Turkey, and missed out on Israel due to Covid shutting things down.

He served in the church he attended for 60+ years. He was a Bible Study teacher for most of those years until he became ill, and he also served as a deacon.

When he retired, he looked for even more opportunities to serve others. When Hurricane Katrina hit New Orleans, he went down with his church a few times to serve food to the people who were devastated. He also volunteered in Alabama when they were hit with multiple tornadoes in 2011.  

When his wife, my aunt Billie, passed a few years earlier, he did not become angry, bitter, or reclusive. He continued to live his life for the LORD and continued his relationship with his children, their wives, his grandchildren, and other family members.

For me, my uncle Gerald was a good example of how to live life for God and for others. He simply gave of himself until his last breath on this earth.

I am sure that he heard those words that all of God’s servants long to hear when they graduate to heaven to be with the LORD for eternity—“Well done, my good and faithful servant.”  

I want to share one scripture verse with you of how God wants us to live our lives.

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

Romans 12:2

Thank you, Uncle Gerald, for showing me and many others that it is possible to live a life according to God’s will.

May we all do the same.

I hope you enjoy this beautiful song I have included for your listening pleasure.

“Well Done” – The Afters