Tragedy: When We Just Don’t Understand Why

The news of the flood in Kerrville, Texas, has been very difficult to watch and very emotional for many of us. I kept thinking why, LORD, why did this have to happen to so many unsuspecting people enjoying time in a scenic place of relaxation and recreation?

It is especially heart-breaking to know that so many young girls were lost at a summer camp that was supposed to bring them joy and lasting memories of their childhood.

I can’t imagine the pain the family members of the victims are feeling, but I am certain that they have the same question—WHY?

My goal is not to place blame on any agency or the government. Hopefully in time, these much-needed answers will come, and regulations will be put in place so that an effective notification system will be employed to warn those in the path of any future similar disaster.   

Today, I want to be able to share hope with the victim’s families so they have something to hold on to that will give them a sense of peace about their loved ones who they sadly lost.

I am writing this also for anyone who has tragically lost a loved one and needs to know that they can live again despite the tragedy; they can let go and trust God; they can smile and laugh again; they can be reunited with their loved ones.

First, I do not know why such tragedies happen. What I do know for certain is that we live in an imperfect world with sin, evil, and death.

I also know that God is good and is very much in control. He is not the author of destruction and pain, but of love and life.

When I start to question why in certain circumstances, my mind goes to Job in the Bible. The Book of Job is 42 chapters in length and deals with tragedy, despair, a search for answers, temptation to curse God, unwavering devotion to God, and hope.

I will give you the short version of the Book of Job, but I highly recommend you read it for yourself.  

Job was a wealthy man, good and honest. He was loved by God who spoke very highly of him to Satan. Satan wanted to prove God’s assessment of Job wrong and asked for permission to exasperate Job so that he would curse God. God’s only restriction was that he could not kill Job.

Job lost his children, his wealth, and his health. As if this weren’t enough, he was insulted by his friends who came to see him. They suggested that he (and his children) had unconfessed sin which led to these tragedies.

Job maintained his innocence and throughout his suffering questioned God as to why all this hardship when he had been a good man and served God.

His wife even told him to just get it over with, curse God, and die!

Job would not curse God, because he knew God was good. He said that he would go to his grave believing such and that he would indeed bless God!

All Job could do was ask God why he had to endure this tragedy and curse. He said that it would’ve been better that he was never born to have to go through all of this.  

He just didn’t understand why.

Eventually God spoke to him and his friends. God rebuked his friends for assuming they had the answers. And God answered Job with a lengthy discourse of questions (Chapters 38–42).

Some of the questions (there were many) God asked Job that resonate with me are:

Job could not answer any of these questions and neither can we.

We can only trust God and continue to believe that His plan is best—even when it hurts.

As time passes, we may look back and discern some good that came from the tragedies we experience or we may understand partly why, but we will know completely when we get to Heaven.

God understands your pain and distress and He sympathizes with you. He will show you how to live your next moments, days, months, and years.

He knows the pain you feel. He watched His only Son, Jesus Christ, die on the cross for all mankind. It was a painful experience for Him, but it was necessary for us to receive eternal life.

I believe that Jesus was present in the flood in Kerrville, Texas, and all the little girls who died in this flood were received instantly into His loving arms. Jesus loved children and He took these to a better place where there will be no more death, evil, pain, or sorrow. They are happy and they are waiting for the day they can be reunited with their beloved family and friends.

I also believe that all of the age of accountability who died in Christ were also received instantly into our Savior’s arms.

I will go a step further.

I believe God gave any that were unsaved another opportunity in the flood waters to surrender to His Son Jesus Christ. Perhaps there were some who turned to the LORD in their despair before they died.

Below is a scripture verse that I hold onto for all my family and friends who are not saved.

For all of you who are struggling and hurting because of the loss of a relative or friend in this heartbreaking tragedy, please know that one day there will be a great reunion filled with joy and laughter with those you lost in the LORD.

He knows your pain, give it to Him. He understands your questions, your grief, your anger.

Let Jesus heal your heart. Trust Him with your unanswered questions until He either shares some insight with you through the Holy Spirit or He reunites you with them when He calls you home to be with Him.

As I have been following the many stories regarding this flood, I came across a mother who lost her beautiful 8-year-old daughter while at Camp Mystic.  

Her outlook is exactly what I wish to convey in this message.

Lindsey McCleod McCrory lost her daughter, Blakely McCrory, while at Camp Mystic and described her daughter as a “’live wire’ with a ‘fun, spirited attitude’ and ‘the type of child that doesn’t stay down for long.’”

She said, “I’m just so grateful to keep her spirit alive.”

McCleod McCrory continued, “And we strongly believe that it happened quickly. She didn’t have to suffer. I just have this feeling. She’s with all those campers and staff who died, and other children. I just imagined it as a happy place, a peaceful place.”

Wow! What faith this mother has!

McCleod McCrory has had her share of tragedy lately.

She lost her husband, Blake McCrory, at age 59 to a battle with cancer recently. She also lost her brother (also 59 years old) earlier this year.

What strength! I believe it comes from deep within due to her faith in Jesus Christ.

I am praying for those who have had to deal with such a tragedy in their lives who are hurting and searching for answers.

May God bless you and grant you the peace that surpasses all understanding. May you have joy again and continue to live your life with hope and meaning—just as the ones you lost would want you to.

Below is one of my all-time favorite Christian songs that I hope will bring you consolation as you listen.

If you want to have a relationship with God and are not sure how or where to start, see my previous posts Relationship with God and Relationship with God – Part 2.

Prayer That’s Powerful

I have been wanting to write about prayer for some time, because I have personally seen God work miracles in my life and the life of others when we pray to Him and trust Him with the answer He gives us.

It’s important to know that God hears the prayers of His children.

Prayer is a direct line to God and is welcomed by God. He wants you to communicate with Him and go to Him for your needs.

Prayer is a way for us to spend precious time with God and to draw near to Him. It is during times of quiet prayer that we often hear from God through the Holy Spirit what we should do when we are searching for answers.

And God is perfectly fine with you just spending time with Him in thankfulness and adoration.

Jesus tells us we must put God first in our lives.

All these things refer to our basic needs—food, shelter, clothing, etc. In the sixth chapter of Matthew, Jesus tells his followers to not worry about their needs in life, that God will provide because He already knows what they need.

Of course, we should not be lazy and wait for God to place our basic needs neatly in our laps. We should always work to achieve what we can and leave the rest to God. He knows our hearts and intentions and enables us to provide for ourselves. It is when we are not able that He intervenes by answering prayer in His loving, powerful way.

We should indeed ask God for what we need—according to His will.

God is a good Father and He enjoys blessing His children just as you enjoy blessing yours.

This does not mean that if we pray for whatever we desire, God will give it to us. We must ask according to His will something that will be good for us now and in the future.

I’ve learned in seeking God that sometimes He says yes to my prayers, sometimes He says no, and sometimes His answer is delayed for the proper time to receive it.

For example, years ago when I was single, I was praying to God for a husband.

After some time seeking and asking God, I finally understood that He had to prepare me to be a good wife to the husband He would give me. He was not yet done molding me to be the wife I needed to be for the husband He was going to give me.

When I decided I would surrender it to Him—no matter how long it took—and wait for His best for me, God answered my prayer. He gave me a better husband than I asked for.  

Looking back, I am so happy that God did not give me who I wanted to be my husband at that time. Instead, He had someone in mind for me who would come along side me to be a loving husband and a great partner to achieve dreams that He has given me.

I believe that when we give our concerns to God and trust Him with His choices for our lives, we are blessed beyond what we could imagine.

God will give only His best to His children, not what will harm or destroy us.

Firstfruits means the first and best of God’s creation. He placed man above all His creation on earth to be good stewards. He even made us in His image and gave us intelligence and abilities far above the rest of His creation.

God is good to us.  

He will not answer a prayer that will lead you into you sin or keep you in sin.

He will not answer a prayer that will do you harm.

He may choose to have you wait so that you can grow in your faith toward Him if you will seek Him and abide in Him. This is a good way to know God and to understand Him.

When we look back and understand that God did us a favor in saying no or making us wait for the right time, we appreciate His goodness toward us, and we trust Him even more.

I have come to realize that I am walking with God today because my dear grandmother prayed for me. She was the best grandmother anyone could have, and the greatest gift she gave me was her prayer over my life.

When we pray to God for something that we are concerned about and He says yes, we become captivated by His love for us.

In my first post, God Still Performs Miracles, I shared how my oldest brother was brain dead and I traveled home to say goodbye and to help my parents with the burial process. When I visited him in the ICU, all I could do was beg God for his salvation primarily and then for him to be given another chance to live. My family gathered around him and prayed that God would heal him completely.

AND HE DID!

I will never forget God’s goodness to my brother and my family during that week that I witnessed this miracle happen! It seemed impossible from our perspective, but NOT FOR GOD!

Jesus tells us when we pray together in His name, we are heard by our Father in heaven.

Will you pray along with me?

A few of my current prayers are for a friend who was just diagnosed with brain cancer, a baby girl and a church member’s husband who both need heart transplants urgently, freedom from addiction for certain family members, Israel and Ukraine to overcome their enemies, and salvation for those who have not yet surrendered to our LORD Jesus Christ.

If you have any prayer requests that you would like to share, I’ll be happy to pray along with you.

I would like to close with a beautiful song by one of my favorite Christian artists.

If you want to have a relationship with God and are not sure how or where to start, see my previous posts Relationship with God and Relationship with God – Part 2.

Thanking Our Fathers

As we approach this Father’s Day, I am thankful that I still have my father who is 87 years old.

Although I live many miles away from him, I talk to him at least twice a week and I visit him at least twice a year, more if needed.

I am grateful that I can help my father do simple things like paying bills online and making good choices for his health.  He still drives well and can hold a good conversation, he just needs a little help in some areas.

As long as I’ve lived, I’ve always wanted to return the blessing to my parents in caring for them when they reach a certain age or time in their lives when they need help.

For now, they have chosen to live on their own but have recently finally agreed to live with me when they are no longer able to.

God has been gracious.

I think back to when I was a little girl and even up to my thirties—I really needed my dad during all those years. From childhood, throughout my school years and post college graduation, to living on my own as an adult, my dad (along with my mother) was my provider, protector, teacher, and personal counselor for every aspect of my life.

My dad was and is a great part of who I am today and I am grateful for his commitment to taking care of me, whether he was right or wrong along the way.

My father was tough, but I knew he loved me and wanted the best for me.

I understand that some people may not have had committed or loving fathers. I know that some have had selfish and perhaps even harmful fathers—and my heart goes out to those who have never experienced the love and selflessness of an earthly father.

Thankfully, we have a wonderful heavenly Father!

He loves, protects, provides for, teaches, guides, and if need be, disciplines us.

He is always available for us and He says in His word that He will never forsake us.

The following scripture verse records Moses encouraging the Israelites to go into the promised land without him. He was telling them that although he would not cross over the Jordan River with them to receive the promised land, God would be with them, and He would direct them and protect them along the way.

Israel saw God’s miracles, but they depended too much on Moses to lead them out of Egypt and through the wilderness. They were so used to Moses intervening for them that they needed to be reminded that God had always been there as the One making the way for them.

This is true for us as well. At some point as we mature, we should understand that God will provide for us as He always has. Whether we have been blessed with caring earthly fathers or not, we need to understand that it is God who has taken care of us.  

In times of reflection, I have come to realize this very fact. God has always been there since I was conceived in my mother’s womb—even before, preparing everything for my life. And through good times and bad, God has brought me to where I am today, alive and well.

I would like to share King David’s psalm to God, praising Him for creating him and for always being there for him.

David was the youngest son in his family, and he saw God work in his life as a shepherd boy. It was David who was anointed the be the future king of Israel over his brothers.

In fact, when God sent the prophet Samuel to Jesse’s (David’s father) house to anoint one of his sons the future king of Israel, Samuel assumed the eldest brother would be the chosen one. When God said no, Samuel went to the next oldest son, and God kept saying no until it seemed there were no more of Jesse’s sons to anoint. Samuel asked Jesse if he had any more sons and he said he had one more, the youngest who was out in the field tending the sheep.

Why did God skip over David’s eldest brother and all the other brothers to anoint a young shepherd boy?

Because David had a heart for and a relationship with God.

God knew David could be trusted to shepherd Israel as He would ordain, but becoming king would be a long road of difficult times, sorrow, and fighting for his life.  

He went from an unknown shepherd boy to King, all along relying daily upon God for his very existence.

David rightly gave thanks and praise to God.

Let’s approach this Father’s Day giving thanks and praise to our earthly fathers who have been there for us and forgiving those who have not or have been injurious to us.  

And to God, our heavenly Father, we thank You and praise You for creating us and being with us every day of our lives.

I hope you enjoy this weekend celebrating with your father or remembering good times for those of you whose fathers have gone to be with the LORD.

Happy Father’s Day to all the dads in our lives!

I’ve always enjoyed the song below praising God, our heavenly Father. I hope you enjoy it too.

For how to have a relationship with God, please read my post Relationship with God and Relationship with God – Part 2.

Another Day, Another Miracle!

Hello and Blessings to all!

I was planning to write about the Proverbs 31 woman this week, but I am happily compelled to share another miracle I witnessed a few days ago.

This was the impetus for starting this blog—to write to you about how very good God is!

So, I must share these occurrences when they happen to give glory and praise to our LORD and Savior Jesus Christ and to encourage you to continue in your faith.

Last Monday, President’s Day, a few members of our family decided to go hiking and we took our dogs along. One is a golden retriever named Bella, and the other is a miniature schnauzer named Lulu.

Bella is our beautiful 8-year-old sweetheart. Lulu is about five months old, new to the family, and we absolutely adore her. She is our grandchildren’s first dog, so she is very special because they have been wanting a dog for a few years.

After we returned home from hiking, I was warming up some soup in the kitchen, and all of a sudden, I heard a commotion going on in our breakfast room. My husband and stepdaughter were frantically trying to free Lulu from Bella.

This was a freak accident—the dogs were playing as they usually do in a friendly manner, but somehow Lulu’s collar got stuck on one of Bella’s lower canines.

I suppose they noticed it when neither Bella nor Lulu could break free, and poor little Lulu was dangling from Bella’s mouth. They tried and tried to free Lulu but couldn’t and were beginning to panic.

I ran to try to help, but none of us could free her and time was running out. Lulu was fighting for her life and bit all of us as we were trying to help her.

I heard my Bella yelp in pain, and at this point my husband focused on keeping Bella calm and still while my stepdaughter and I worked to free Lulu.  

I ran to get the scissors to try to cut little Lulu’s collar, but I couldn’t get my finger under the collar to cut it. The collar was so tight it was strangling her.

NOTHING was working!

We saw Lulu go limp and my stepdaughter started crying, “Lulu! Lulu! Please don’t die, Lulu!”

Then I cried out, “LORD Jesus, please help us!”

Suddenly my stepdaughter decided to lift Lulu’s limp body up and was able to break her free from Bella’s tooth. I worked quickly to cut her collar, hoping for the best.

She laid little Lulu down and she was not responding, her body was limp, and her tongue was blue just hanging out of her mouth. The poor baby had defecated on one of our phones and it was all over the floor and us.

No doubt, little Lulu was dead, but I kept saying, “LORD Jesus, please help us, please help us!”

I heard my stepdaughter say, “now mouth to mouth!” So, she opened Lulu’s mouth and started breathing into her as we both worked to pump her heart. I could tell my stepdaughter was losing hope, so I started giving mouth to mouth to keep the momentum going and to give her a break.

Suddenly, Lulu opened her eyes!

I grabbed her and held her upright and started shaking her gently to help her breathe. Then I felt her heart starting to beat again—we were so relieved!

The poor puppy was dazed and just stared at me for a while.

Our grandchildren were in the foyer of our home, scared for their puppy, while we were trying to save her, but immediately came running over when we said, “she’s breathing, she’s alive!”

THANK YOU, LORD JESUS!

To YOU be all the glory!

We witnessed a miracle in our home before our very eyes!

The three of us (my husband, stepdaughter, and I) agreed without hesitation that little Lulu was dead.

We are not overly emotional or tale-telling people, but more reserved in our personalities and behavior.

Jesus went to the extreme to show me once more that He cares about us and what we care about. He knew our hearts would be broken if we lost little Lulu so tragically.

I believe He did this to also show some that day who may not believe in Him that He is indeed alive and powerful as our LORD and Savior.

In the Bible, Jesus tells us to believe in Him and to have faith in Him. He healed many sick people and even brought some back to life.

Below is the story of Jesus bringing his friend Lazarus back to life.

Not long after Jesus restored life to his friend Lazarus, He Himself was resurrected from the grave three days after willingly dying for ours sins.

Resurrection power belongs to Him and God our Father alone!

Jesus is still raising the dead to life today!

If we will believe IN Him and believe that He CAN raise the dead, He will show us His power and perform a miracle before our very eyes!

In fact, I started writing this blog because of the miracle healing he did for my oldest brother. He brought him back from the dead also. See my first blog, God Still Performs Miracles.

I share this with you because I want to share good news.

Jesus is the Good News in our lives now and into eternity!

If you haven’t already, I pray you place your trust in Him and let Him show you his miracle working power.

Below is one of my favorite Christian songs that I hope will put a smile on your face and help you to believe in his power.

“Rattle!” – Elevation Worship

Heeding Warnings

We have just entered hurricane season which starts in June and typically ends in November. Reports are already out that this year will be an exceptional year for hurricanes with a good chance for La Niña to add to the severity of storms.

Do you remember Hurricane Ian and the devastation it wreaked on Ft. Myers Beach two years ago? It was incomprehensible to many that there would be so much devastation. To this day, they are still recovering from this violent storm. Many chose to stay and ride out the storm. Some of these people did not survive because the water surge was so high.

Why didn’t they heed the warnings to evacuate?

I remember there were warnings of at least a 12-ft surge from the gulf waters. Many who stayed and survived said that they would most definitely evacuate for the next hurricane if advised to do so.

The only way to avoid such devastation is to heed the warnings and prepare according to the experts’ advice.

The same is true for our spiritual lives. We have a Master Expert who has created us, our earthly home, the galaxies, and heaven. God has created all things. (See Genesis 1)

God our Father, our Redeemer Jesus Christ, and our Counselor, the Holy Spirit, created us to have fellowship with Him because He loves us and wants us to have an abundant life on this earth and one day return to Him. In the book of Revelation, the apostle John writes that there will come a time when we will have no more pain and no more sorrows, if we belong to God.

Now I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away. Also there was no more sea. Then I, John, saw the holy city, New Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from heaven saying, “Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and He will dwell with them, and they shall be His people. God Himself will be with them and be their God. And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away.” 
Revelation 21:1-4

As much as I cherish my life in the here and now, I know that as seasons change, so will my life. I know that as I get older, my life will be different, although I am not sure how. I know that there will be disappointments and hardships, perhaps physical pain or illness that I will have to endure.

This life is not perfect, but it can be abundant. Currently, I am enjoying an abundant season of life and I thank God for this, because I have been through seasons of hardship and uncertainty.

We are told by God that He has a better life for us with Him in the future, whether He takes us to be with Him in heaven before the second coming of Christ or we are raptured up to heaven—that is, if we belong to Him.

If you are concerned, uncertain, or you just don’t agree, let me go a little further. Let’s read what God told the apostle John to write down in the next few verses.

Then He who sat on the throne said, “Behold, I make all things new.” And He said to me, “Write, for these words are true and faithful.” And He said to me, “It is done! I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. I will give of the fountain of the water of life freely to him who thirsts. He who overcomes shall inherit all things, and I will be his God and he shall be My son. But the cowardly, unbelieving, abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.” 
Revelation 21:5-8

It’s wonderful to know that God will forgive our sins when we surrender our lives to Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior (the fountain of the water of life) and when we repent of our sin. To repent means to change directions, in other words, to turn away from our sin. There is not one of us alive today that hasn’t sinned, so we all need God’s grace and forgiveness and it is given to us for free.

God is always truthful and straightforward with His message. Let’s look at the last of these verses. He starts with “But” or on the other hand, for all the sinners who don’t repent and choose to continue in their sin and refuse to believe His truth and heed His warnings, these will be cast in to the lake of fire and burn for eternity. Yes, hell is real and God describes it as fiery hot and painful. In other words, these unbelievers will go into eternal torment.

I will not try to expound God’s simple truth. I know that some of you understand and believe this truth. My concern is for those who do not. My sincere goal is not to insult you, but to share with you God’s warnings. Maybe you have never heard this before, maybe you don’t believe it. Maybe you feel that God has abandoned you and allowed too much difficulty in your life. As I shared previously, my life has had its share of difficulties and pain—everyone’s has. Don’t let your troubles shade your view of God. If you turn to Him and trust Him, He will show Himself mightily to you.

The Bible is His written word, full of promises and examples of others who overcame difficulties and sin. He also gives us examples of those who chose not to follow Him and their consequences.

God loves you just as you are and He is waiting for you to turn to Him. He wants nothing more than to have a relationship with you.

The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance. 
2 Peter 3:9

I pray that you will reconsider God’s warnings written throughout His word.

As I close, I want to share one more appeal with you. Lee Strobel, a self-professed atheist, set out to prove that there is no God. He started reading the Bible to prove it false. The more he read, the more he began to believe in God and His word. He wrote a book, The Case for Christ, and a few years later a movie was made about his search for truth. I would invite you to at least read this book and maybe even watch the movie before you determine to continue in your unbelief.

Don’t be like those who lost their lives in the hurricanes because they would not heed the warnings. After death, there is no opportunity to change our minds or the mind of God. Make a decision for Jesus Christ today and freely receive the Water of Life—now and for eternity.

The Case for Christ – Lee Strobel

Book:   https://www.amazon.com/Case-Christ-Journalists-Personal-Investigation/dp/0310350034

I started listening to Christian music years ago on my long drives to and from work. I would always feel so wonderful as if God were there in the car with me encouraging me to continue in my walk with Him.

Below I have included a special song. I hope you will be blessed and feel God’s presence today as you too continue your journey with Him.

“The Father’s House”Cory Asbury