Welcoming the New in Your Life

When we enter the New Year, we plan to make some changes for the better in our lives. Many of our resolutions are made based on what we want to achieve for ourselves, whether it be for health or lifestyle improvements.

I wonder though if we have prayed and sought what God would like for us to do differently or work toward that would not only be good for us personally but would benefit others as well.

As we start this new year, let’s make room for the new developments that await us when we graciously accept what God has planned for us.

Accepting the New

I met a lady yesterday while shopping at Walmart who had the sweetest baby girl sleeping in her cart with all kinds of groceries stuffed in the cart. I was in the checkout line behind this woman who I assumed was her grandmother.

The baby was very small, so I asked her how old the baby was and she said that she was twelve weeks old and they had adopted her when she was eleven days old. She continued to tell me that this was her 15th child that she has fostered.

All I could say was God bless you for being such a wonderful person to foster such a sweet little being. She responded, “It’s not for the faint of heart, but it has been very rewarding.”

All I could think was WOW! How selfless! And she feels “how rewarding!”

This little baby girl is most definitely blessed to have such a kind-hearted woman to give her a good and loving start in life that her biological mother for whatever reason most likely cannot.

I wonder how her love and attention to all of these children she’s fostered has changed their lives for the better.

She has two biological children and has adopted two of her foster children. Her grocery bill was certainly in line with this 7th member of her current household!

I didn’t ask, but I am sure that when she first felt the call to foster children she was concerned about whether she and her husband could do it, afford it, have time for it, etc.

She said to me that without God, she could have never done it because He has always provided what they needed.

God provides for His call on your life!

God has and is still using a surrendered soul to bless so many lives. And He does the same for anyone who is willing to answer His call for their lives.

Now I would like to share with you what I feel God is leading me to change in my life and to develop with others in my community.

It is to focus less on my likes and desires and to spend more time with some of the women that God has placed in my life getting to know them better and developing stronger relationships.

I have had the privilege of knowing these women from my neighborhood and my church, but I have not really invested quality time with any of them other than briefly speaking to them on occasion as the opportunity presented.

I look forward to this new idea, pledge, beginning, because I am eager to see what God will do in the future through my simple obedience to His plan.

I don’t have any preconceived notions other than understanding their current life situations as well as their past—and future goals.

I know that God will make the way for His plans to unfold this year in my life and the future as I step out in obedience to Him.

His word tells us this exactly.  

I know that I can put all my trust in God’s word, His truth written to and for us—because I have walked with Him in good times and bad.

God may be calling you to do something unique and different in your life this year. I encourage you to heed the call and submit to His plan for your life. I have a feeling that if you do, you too will feel far more rewarded than strained.

Letting Go of the Past

If you are experiencing difficult times now or have in the past, let me encourage you to let go and let God show you His love and His power in your life over all the adversities that you have gone through.

Simply trust Him and seek Him.

You may be saying to yourself, “Yes, but you don’t know what I have done to bring about all these terrible circumstances that I am suffering now.”

Friend, let me tell you that what you have done in your past is of no consequence to God’s love for you and His blessings over your future.

A few years ago, I came to this same conclusion and I am a living example of how God can transform a life going in the wrong direction to a stable and joyful existence looking forward to what He has planned for a life surrendered in obedience.

Leaning on God

Read again the last two lines above in Isaiah 43:18-19.

God promises us that He will bring the change in our wild, barren, fruitless lives while at the same time refreshing our souls with His living water that nourishes, heals, and restores us.  

His living water is Jesus, our Savior.

When we surrender to Him, we are given new life.

When we seek Him, we are given a new understanding of this life.

When we abide in Him, we are given new purpose for this life.

When we obey Him, we are given new victories in this life.

I encourage you to step out of your routine and walk with Jesus because He alone brings change.

Get ready for new purpose and a new outlook that will help you stand through any storm or adversity.

God is for you and He wants a relationship with you.

Trust Him and seek Him for a better year and a better life.

Here’s to new beginnings.

May God bless you.

Enjoy the song below as you consider making a change for the better—God’s will for your life.

If you want to have a relationship with God and are not sure how or where to start, see my previous posts Relationship with God and Relationship with God – Part 2.

Spending Time with God

If you joined me last week for Starting the New Year with Promise, you read how important it is to study God’s word (the Holy Bible) daily.

We learned that we should meditate on His word, that is, to think upon what we read and strive to commit it to memory and apply it to our lives.

It can be done. It just takes carving out a set time in your schedule and perseverance.

It takes time to form a habit, so don’t beat yourself up if you miss a day or so while trying to set up your schedule. Just start again the next day where you left off.

Most importantly, ask God to help you. He delights in helping someone who is trying to follow Him.

This week we are going to go further in seeking after God by forming another new habit (if you haven’t already), which is to spend time with God.

That is, to schedule time with God where only you and He are together to commune with each other.

Let’s look at a scripture verse that suggests we should seek after God.

God makes it clear in His word that any who diligently seek Him will find Him.

I want to confess something—only because it will help you know that it can be done, not to offer any excuses.

It took me some time to get this special time with God placed solidly on my calendar. I had to want to do it and stick with it in order for it to become a habit in my life.

When I first heard how to do this from Dr. Charles Stanley, founder of InTouch Ministries, I wanted to do it, but made excuses that I didn’t have time or didn’t have the space to do so.

I believe that God pursued me about this because I heard Dr. Stanley’s sermon about this topic again and again. Dr. Stanley gave all kinds of reasons why and ideas of how to get alone with God—he even spoke about just going into a closet and turning off the lights to avoid distractions.

He said that it was during these times that he spent alone with God that he had been the most reassured of God’s love and given the most insight in how to handle any situation that he was involved in—good or bad. Dr. Stanley insisted that this was a practice that would bring great reward to the seeker.  

So, I started my time alone with God in a closet (with the lights turned off) in an apartment many years ago. Today, I have a special room in my home where I go to spend time with God, seeking His face, praying, and talking to Him. I also set aside time to be quiet and just listen to God speak to me.

This act of seeking God and spending alone time with Him has been such a blessing in my life.

A couple of years ago, I was asking God what He would have me do with my life after moving to South Carolina. It was during Covid and I no longer wanted to work outside my home.

I believe through prayer and time spent alone with God that He showed me the next career for me—blogging about His goodness in order for others to know Him and walk with Him. If anyone would have told me prior to Covid that I would be blogging, I would have laughed and said, “No way, not my thing!”  

If you’re questioning whether or not God speaks to His children, the answer is YES, He most certainly does!

In the parable of the Good Shepherd, Jesus says,

After some time, listening to God and following Him was something that I desired and needed. I once told a group of friends that I would never want to be so happy with my life that I would forget God. I still feel this way today.

By the way, I am very happy with my life, and I know it’s because of God.

He must be first in my life—first before my family, my work, my pleasures.

It is when I put God first that I can be and do what I should for my family, my work, and have a healthy balance in my leisure time.  

Before I close, I want to share with you one more promise I have always treasured and held on to. It is our LORD and Savior Jesus Christ reassuring His followers.

You don’t have to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders. God is more than willing to help you!

This is good news from God that He is for you and He will provide for you no matter how bleak your situation looks. He loves you because He created you and He has a purpose for you.

Seek His kingdom and His righteousness and let Him show you how much He loves you.

He is my Creator, my best friend, and my priority. Without Him, I would not exist; I cannot breathe; and I cannot discern what is best for my life.

I hold my relationship to Him as dear and privileged.

I hope this is or will be the same for you.

May God grant you His peace, His wisdom, and may His face shine upon you as you draw near to Him.

I love to end my messages with an inspirational song for your listening pleasure. The one below is perfect for today’s message.

“First Things First”Consumed by Fire