I’ve been reflecting on life in our society in the United States lately since the devastation of Hurricane Helene hit Florida and the Carolinas. I lived in Florida for twenty-five years and currently reside in South Carolina since 2020. I am very familiar with hurricanes and preparing for them, but by God’s grace, I have never had property damage and haven’t suffered very long without electricity. I have certainly seen horrific damage in Florida and in other areas from hurricanes, but never close to home, until now.

We have a lot of trees down on our property in the woods, so many that we lose track of where we are standing. Thank God, this is the major damage we experienced along with tree branches that fell on parts of our fence which we will have to repair. I have seen other areas with trees on houses and feel for those devastated homeowners.

We were not expecting anything but maybe a little wind and some rain—certainly not the devastation that hit us and parts of Western North Carolina (WNC). After leaving Florida, Helene was supposed to move north and then turn west toward Nashville.

If you’ve ever lived in hurricane territory, you know that hurricanes can shift directions based on weather fronts that move them from their predicted course. This is exactly what happened to the Carolinas.

In WNC, I have seen pictures and have been told of the utter devastation by friends who either were there during the hurricane with family or traveled there afterward to help with disaster assistance. There is no way that those who lost their homes and their lives in the mudslides could have prepared to save themselves. There was no warning for them to prepare to leave their homes nor has anything of this magnitude ever happened in these hard-hit areas. They are simply not used to hurricanes coming near the mountains. I am left to consider their heartbreak, pray for them, and help financially with material goods.

While all this was unfolding, my husband and I were on vacation. Before we left, I remember praying for no turbulence on our flight down to Ft Lauderdale because we were flying in as Helene was coming into Florida on the West Coast. I prayed for those in Florida and other states predicted to be hit as it moved out of Florida. Then, as we used to do while living in Florida, we watched the Weather Channel to see how Helene was moving along, again knowing that it could change directions and possibly move eastward toward the Carolinas. I prayed over our family, friends, and our property—especially our house, fence, and chickens. We had two dead trees that we knew we needed to cut down but hadn’t yet done so. These two trees fell alongside the fence in the woods. They did not hit the fence—thank God!

After we received notice from a neighbor that we had no major damage and our family had no damage, we decided to continue with our vacation. We offered our home and food to our family if they needed it while we were away. Our home was without electricity for about five days, but some in our family were without it for a couple of weeks.

We kept in touch with our family and friends while away and understood their grief over the lack of electricity, a warm shower, the ability to wash clothes, empty shelves in the grocery stores, and the scarcity of fuel for their vehicles. It was a great inconvenience, to say the least.

We in the United States of America don’t like to be inconvenienced.

We have a standard of living that we expect to continue without any interruptions. We have been taught to work hard for a better lifestyle, one that we think ensures our comfort and life as we know it—or like it.

I wonder how many of us (I know there are some among us) stop to think about how good we really have it, and how blessed we are as a nation. How we should be more conservative and prepare for unforeseen circumstances. I also wonder how many think this life we know may not last forever and how many appreciate the “little things” as one of my friends put it.

These “little things” are often the most important things we think will always be there for us and so we do not always take the time to cherish them. I’ve listed a few below.

• Spending intimate time with the creator of the Universe that loves us and provides all our needs
• Telling our loved ones that we love them and spending quality time with them
• Being thankful for a roof over our heads, food on the table, warm running water for a nice shower
• Appreciating what God has already given us instead of thinking about that one more thing we have to have

I write about these because I am guilty of neglecting them when I get into the zone of my daily life.

My prayer is that we would spend more time thinking about and appreciating these most important blessings in life that we take for granted.

I also pray for the victims of Hurricane Helene who lost family members and homes and who despair while life takes on a new normal. I pray that they see the love and provision of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ amid the pain and struggles.

Before I close, I want to leave you with one thought. It is an exhortation from the apostle Paul written to the church in Philippi to continue in their faith in Jesus Christ regardless of the difficulties going on around them.

Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Philippians 4:4-7

Wishing you a safe and blessed Thanksgiving with your family and friends.

Enjoy the song below that I’ve included for your listening pleasure.

“Gratitude” by Brandon Lake